Archives for August, 2009

The Daily Dreyfuss

I rediscovered Dooce this week. Her story about her washing machine reminded me of why I originally started reading her — she’s a terrific writer. And absolutely hilarious.

As I was navigating around her site, I was reminded of something that she does called the Daily Chuck. Dooce takes a picture of their family dog Chuck (and sometimes their other dog CoCo).

Floss | Photo copyright 2009 | Heather B. Armstrong | dooce.com®

Now I don’t have near the readership that Dooce and Blurb (her husband) do. But I love my dog equally, if not more and he is certainly as cute. Now he probably won’t sit still so I can balance a bowl of Cocoa Puffs on his head, but he’s cute all the same. So starting September 1, I’m going to start posting a daily picture of Dreyfuss here on Shane Life.

It won’t interrupt my normal posting schedule, but I thought it would be fun to take pictures of my dog. You know…for posterity and stuff.

15 Films

There’s a meme going around Facebook where you are supposed to list 15 films (from this point forward, I shall call them movies) that are significant to you, that you can watch over and over again, or that you just want to recommend to others…something like that. I guess it’s different than a top 15 list somehow, but I’m not sure.

Anyway, since my blog posts automagically import into my Facebook notes, thought it would be worth posting publicly.

Here are my 15 movies, in no particular order:

  • Good Will Hunting
  • Fletch
  • The Matrix
  • Star Wars Episode IV: A New Hope
  • Shrek
  • Dumb & Dumber
  • Shakespeare in Love
  • Almost Famous
  • Reality Bites
  • Moulin Rouge
  • Fight Club
  • Raiders of the Lost Ark
  • Die Hard
  • Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
  • Rounders

What are yours?

Moments

I blogged at length about how much I loved Big Omaha. The speaker lineup was phenomenal: Gary Vaynerchuk, Jeffrey Kalmikoff and Jason Fried were all people I was so excited about hearing talk and they all completely delivered with relevant, interesting insight into how they got to where they were in their businesses.

One speaker that I knew very little about and that I didn’t quite understand at first, was Micah Baldwin. Micah (or Me-ha, as he is known by some) is the Chief Evangelist at Lijit Networks, a startup based in Boulder, Colorado. Micah writes regularly at his blog, Learn to Duck and he is consistently insightful and interesting. Oh, and he started #followfriday on Twitter, an extremely popular tradition in which people recommend others to follow.

Micah’s latest post on Learn to Duck talked about the concept of moments and contained the video posted below, which he got from the Social Vibe blog.

One of the things that I really love about Alli’s current work that she’s doing for her show in October is that it is aiming to capture the moments which Micah is describing and which are so beautifully illustrated in the above video.

The moments in between are oftentimes the most important parts of life. It’s not necessarily how you deal with the big events that defines who you are as a person, but more appropriately, the collection of moments along the journey from big event to big event.

It’s the moments that matter.

Thanks to Micah for reminding me and to my amazing wife for all the moments we’ve had and all those yet to come.

5 in 5 for Silicon Prairie

About a month ago, Silicon Prairie News asked me if I’d participate in their Five in Five series, a video that I would shoot, edit and upload that answered five questions about my blog and was less than five minutes.

  1. What is the name, subject and URL of your blog?
  2. Why do you blog?
  3. How long have you been blogging and what blogging software do you use?
  4. What’s your favorite blog (besides your own)?
  5. What do you think the state of the blogosphere is in our region?

Today, my video was posted. I thought I’d cross-post it here.

I’m pretty happy with how it came out, although I thought of stuff I would have mentioned later, like more specific shout-outs to KC bloggers that I like. But oh well. Another time perhaps. (Or even another post.)

If you don’t follow me on Twitter, you probably wouldn’t know about this, so enjoy.

And please… try to be nice.

Free Speech vs. Anonymity

The internet is abuzz with the story of Rosemary Port, the blogger behind the “Skanks of NYC” blog. Google was sued by one of the targets of her vitriol (a model named Liskula Cohen) and was forced by courts reveal her real life identity.

Port, a 29-year-old student at FIT, is unapologetic. In fact, you could argue that she’s even more outraged than Cohen, who initially brought the defamation suit against her, considering that Port is now suing Google for $15 million dollars. Nevermind the fact that Google was only abiding by a court’s ruling…

I promise I'll never hide my identity if I run a blog that calls you a skank

What bothers me most about this story is what bothers me a lot about blogs and internet commentary. People like to hide behind the First Amendment and believe they should be allowed to spout hateful, libelous comments without the consequence of actually having to own up to their comments.

Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.

But there’s nothing in the First Amendment that guarantees anonymity in your free speech. See, that’s the difference and where the internet can be a dangerous place. People can hide behind aliases and while many would argue that anonymity allows for a more free exchange of ideas (as has been upheld by a 1995 Supreme Court ruling), the truth is that it has very little to do with the First Amendment.

There are organizations that will try to tell you that you are entitled to your anonymity. There has even been precedent set by previous rulings, but frankly, the court’s ruling that Google must release Port’s identity is going to set a whole new standard.

I’ve long thought that the anonymity afforded bloggers and commenters on the Web allowed people to expose their hatred and racism (just a quick reading of the comments — comments that I would reject — on Tony’s Kansas City will show you that). But those things are actually truths that people just normally don’t share in real life. More dangerous is the flat out fallacies and untruths that people write, hiding behind their veiled “online persona.” I know there are people that do it for the protection of their job or their family or whatever, but I guess that’s just not the kind of blogger I want to be.

I’ve always tried to be myself online. I would hope that my readers will always hold me to that, especially the ones that know me in real life.

What do you think? Is anonymity a part of what the Web is about or does it afford authors and commenters too much leeway?

How we celebrated

Alli’s birthday was Saturday and as is the tradition in our family, birthdays are a weekend-long event. I took the day off Friday to get some extra celebrating in. Here’s what we did:

Friday:

  • Starbucks lattes (2 pump hazelnut soy for her, 4-shot skinny cinnamon dolce for me) and cinnamon knots from Price Chopper for breakfast
  • Massages at Serenity Rejuvenating Day Spa
  • Lunch at Chipotle (obviously)
  • Catching up with Project Runway (on Lifetime! in HD!)
  • Hanging out with her family at Ashley and Tyson’s

Saturday:Alli shopping for herbs

  • Up early for Panera bagels and cinnamon rolls with her parents and some (RED) coffee from home
  • Off to the Farmer’s Market by 7:00 a.m.
  • Bought veggies, flowers, pasta, andouille sausage (for me!) at the market
  • Bought some Pain de Campagne from Fervere (thanks to Meesha for the recommendation)
  • Short nap
  • The Time Traveler’s Wife at the Fork & Screen
  • Hanging out with the fam and I made lemon cupcakes (that’s right)
  • Opened presents
  • Watched The Soloist, thanks to Ashley and Tyson

Sunday:

  • The leftover bagels from Panera and (RED) coffee again
  • Church
  • Lunch consisting of a good portion of what we bought at the farmer’s market, including, sweet corn, cherry tomatoes, fresh mozzarella, naan, lemon and thai basil, and the bread from Fervere.
  • A short nap
  • Great TV

Not a bad way for Alli to ring in her birthday, no?

Birthday Weekend

Alli in the sun

Beautiful girl. Beautiful day.

Love you, Alli. Hope your day and your 3-day weekend has been fabulous.

Workin’ hard

Lots of stuff going on at work. Trying to make things happen…and FAST.

Looking forward to the day off tomorrow and the 3-day birthday weekend for the Best. Wife. Ever.

Bringing Back Bartering

Pin-Up Painting at Hair Salon

I’ve written numerous times about my amazingly talented artist wife. She creates phenomenal work for people in their homes and businesses.

I have rarely written about my great hairstylist, but Sarah is awesome. She keeps my hair looking totally sweet and has an awesome last name.

The coolest thing: Alli and Sarah have now bartered. That’s right. Kickin’ it old school, like back in the days when you could trade a loaf of bread for a brick, Sarah and Alli have exchanged haircuts for artwork, the result of the latter is the above 4-foot by 4-foot painting inspired by the pin-up girl tattooed on Sarah’s arm.

In exchange for the painting, Alli has built a line of credit that should get the two of us through several haircuts and I think that’s pretty cool. Bartering is cool.

Plus, it gives me an excuse to give a shout-out to Alli and Sarah in the same post.